Here's an excerpt from a conversation that i had with a colleague earlier. Think its worth something to add on my blog..
"Anyway, its quite hard to detect if a guy or girl is the right one... Its that feeling when u just know that whenever u need that person, that person is always there. To listen to you, to help you in anyway possible. When ur with that person, u wouldn't even think of being with anyone else. U feel that u can depend on that person, to be with u whenever ur lonely, or sad, happy and glad. U'd have that feeling of wanting to please that person, to see that person smile. Even if that person made u angry, u'd just have the inclination to say i forgive you, and forget that that person has ever made u angry.
Actually, its not if a person can find someone better.. its more to look for someone who is the best for you, who can compliment you in temperament, likes and dislikes, hobbies, and compromises.
So u see.. being in a relationship is much more then just commitment..."